The Subtle Art Of A Threesome

Let’s talk about sex, orgasms, and masturbation

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“A good guy goes down on you. A great guy goes down on you, and doesn’t come up until you get an orgasm.” — Anonymous.

Nothing feels better than sex.

The sensual feeling of having every aspect of your body touched, caressed, and kissed is mind-blowing.

Endless explosions of sexual tension, emotion, and lust take precedence over the moment until you both reach an incredible orgasm.

What’s not to love about that?

Now, imagine it with two people. What would be your preference?

Two guys and one girl? Two girls and one guy? Or three people of the same sex?

It’s entirely up to you (obviously providing everyone consents).

You see, over the past few months, I’ve noticed that there is a stigma towards the beautiful art of a threesome. It seems like society is quick to judge people who enjoy being aroused & fucked by multiple people.

Admittedly, I’m monogamous in relationships: I prefer the intimacy between myself and another person. However, in the right circumstances, the suggestion of a threesome is something I’ve never turned down.

I understand that you will have questions about having a threesome, where to find one, and many more. So if you are curious about the topic, keep reading.

Let’s begin.

What The Reality Of Having A Threesome?

It’s somewhat different from what porn & other types of media tend to portray. That said, it’s an exciting experience that allows you to explore new sexual limits. However, it’s fundamentally important to respect each other’s boundaries to ensure a pleasurable experience.

How Do I Find A Threesome?

My experiences have been via friends who I hooked up with for an evening (or several). However, there are undoubtedly several ways to go about it.

I’ve heard a couple of casual hookup stories via Tinder. However, the highest success rate tends to come from specialized apps such as Feeld. The internet is your best friend when it comes to hooking up with strangers. So start scouring multiple websites for a good match, and begin the process of talking.

Is Having A Threesome Awkward?

It depends on the pre-existing levels of intimacy between you and those participating. In my experience, the first few minutes are incredibly awkward. After all, there are two other people to have sex with.

As you might expect, it often begins with light kissing and undressing each other. But when it comes to the fucking, it’s essential to master the balancing act of paying attention to each person to ensure nobody feels left out.

What Are The Best Sex Positions?

It’s worth noting that I’ve only had experience in threesomes with two women (FFM) so we’ll have to use that as a point of reference.

My personal favorite is “Double Cowgirl.” For those of you unfamiliar with the position, it goes like this:

  • The man lays down horizontally. I prefer to use a bed for this. However, a couch will do.
  • One girl rides the man’s dick, while the other sits on the man’s face and gets licked out.

Another classic is the “69 +1”. In a similar fashion to a regular 69, two people are giving & receiving oral sex. Simultaneously, the man provides anal to the woman on top.

I’m going to finish with a quote from Woody Allen:

“I believe that sex is a beautiful thing between two people. Between five, it’s fantastic”.

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